i learnt a lesson last night. a very valuable lesson indeed. something i never knew much of before. although a part of me felt hurt and sad, what happened last night has opened up my eyes and changed my view of certain things in this life.

1. sometimes its alright to just let go of the things people do to you. that may or may not hurt you. for all you know, they don't even know it's hurting you. unless you are dare enough to confront them about it, just let it go. they will come around and if they have enough braincells, it will occur to them that what happened or what was done to you, is so not right and you deserve an apology from them.

2. sometimes, no matter how hurtful you are by the things that happened, put on a smile on your face. though knowing its killing you slowly inside. you might just be lucky enough to know that the other person realize that he/she has done a wrongful act and apologize.

3. sometimes, it's kinda thrilling to play with karma. what goes around comes around. give them the taste of the poison they fed you. give them exactly what they need for them to see how the same thing they did earlier, got you really hurt. though this really does not sound rather nice. but it does makes you feel fulfilled when its done. but of course having grudges will only taint your heart and soul even more than they already are.

4. the simple thing is, when someone hurt your feelings, either with what they do or say, just put on a SMILE and let it GO. revenge comes later. LOL

5. when they turn around and thank you for accepting their flaws and letting them go with their mistakes, you will feel this accomplished feeling in you that no word can explain.

6. being forgiven might just be worth it. i guess. i'm still learning the whole process. it's not easy but i'll give it a shot because what was accomplished last night, made me feel so much better than having this grudge inside me all along.

let go and put on a smile. forgive but ... can i ever forget.. naah.. haha